Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Interracial Dating Tips - A Personal Experience

Is Interracial Dating For You?

Are you considering interracial dating? Well, before you do, you should consider your motives. I've dated inter-racially since 1989; and it has been no more different than when I dated Black men. I wasn't seeking a White man just to have a "pretty baby," which is what most outsiders think. I dated inter-racially because I have always been attracted to White men; but wasn't allowed to earlier due to family pressure. Needless to say, I have grown to accept the consequences of my decisions; and I've not looked back sense.

It hasn't always been easy. I've been rejected by my former boyfriends' family and friends; but I wasn't dating them. Nonetheless, it didn't make our relationship stronger because "he" couldn't handle the pressure. With that said, ask yourself this question: "When the going gets tough, will I stay the course?" Your answer will determine whether inter-racially dating is for you. It isn't an easy road to travel; but if you choose to do so, it is well worth the trip.

So, stay tuned to this blog as it will provide you with some interesting stories of my interracial dating experiences. You are not alone; and it's always a excellent trip when you can take a friend along for the ride - ME!

Please share your comments on this subject as I'm sure there are others out there like me who can handle interracial dating joys and challenges.

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