Thursday, October 11, 2007

HOW to tell he's flirting with you and/or attracted to you

1. The Eyebrow LiftWhen a guy first sees a girl he's attracted to, chances his eyebrows will rise and fall. Quickly. (You can slip the flip of an eyebrow back at him, if you're interested - it's a clear signal both ways.)

2. Gaining Your AttentionExaggerated movements or gestures usually mean that he's trying to stand out from the crowd. He may shift positions so that he is standing slightly apart from his friends or a group of people.

3. Slight Parting of the LipsHis lips may automatically part for a second when your eyes first meet.

4. His Nostrils Open Slightly - Face WidensAs his eyebrows raise and nostrils flare slightly so with the parted lips, he has an open, friendly expression on his face.

5. He Shifts to the Classic Male Courship Stance The macho stance (cowboy style) - he'll probably lock his thumbs in his belt or belt loops, point his fingers downwards, spread his legs about shoulder distance apart and tilt his head to one side.

6. Touches His Own FaceHe may rub his chin, brush his cheek with the back of his fingers or touch his ears.(He may not realize this is a combination of nerves and unconscious preening behavior.)

7. Strokes His Shirt Front, Smoothes his JeansMore unconscious preening - smoothing a shirt sleeve, tie, shirt pocket.(The equivalent of the female lip lick.)

8. Fiddles with His HairHe may smooth or tussle his hair involuntarily and more often than you might realize - again preening for you...

9. Eyebrows Arc While TalkingHe may, accidentally, exhibit a slightly surprised expression with slightly raised eyebrows - which means he is interested in you. (Forget the guy who looks at you with a smooth, relaxed brow and eyes - he thinks you're boring. You probably think he's boring so drop your eyebrows and more on.)

10. Sock AdjustmentIf a guy pulls up or adjusts his socks in your presence, it's an almost 100 per cent sign he's interested and trying to look his best. The big preening signal...

and even more and more flirting ?